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It could help me out so I am not typically one to post on a forum, but figured. I have already been speaking with this person for only a little over a now, have gone on about 6 dates, i’ve spent the weekend at his apt in nyc, but have not had any talk about being exclusive (it’s still early, i know!) month. BUT not long ago i viewed their hinge to see because it made me think he’s still actively using hinge if he had updated anything, and the order of his pictures changed (the 2nd picture became his 1st, 1st became 2nd) I don’t know if this happens automatically on hinge, but it upset me. We talk each and every day while having had amazing dates and go along great. He plans great times and always is asking as he is able to see me personally next.. I feel like after simply because I have been overthinking and feel like he’s been distant over text. Yesterday he didn’t text me until belated at night which can be unlike him.. he asked exactly how my time had been and the thing I did that we think is normal but now I’m overthinking all of it 
. Any suggestions? And I also making myself crazy?
Youre snooping, as you do not know where you stay. And you also do not understand in which you stay while you think the sticking your mind in the sand may be the strategy that is best. First we think its crucial you receive out from the overthinking mindset. It spills over. Yes he is able to be searching from the dating app, Yes they can come out not interested. But thats the overall game. You shouldn be overinvested therefore quickly. It works against you. If this guy doesnt workout, you shall be fine. It will require approximately a couple of months to make it to understand some body better and as much as a year if you’re a really match. With this specific guy you simply scratched the area to date, however you happen to be afraid of losing him. How to handle it, he is interested if he keeps planning dates. You can consider a resting exclusive with agreement. Thats just what I would personally do if I became dating for severe. Its too quickly to consider being a few you could determine simply to rest woth one another until its A yes that is clear or. Stay normal rather than concentrate on every indication i texting hinging whatever. Get look over book alternatively.
You might be way real way wayyyy too spent and overthinking this. After all stalking his profile that is dating and just noticing but panicking over their image purchase? That’s pretty intense. So can be your basic expectations.
This might be really first stages if dating. After all you might be still simply strangers getting to understand one another. Maybe Not the time for you be questioning their relationship practices or their commitment. You need ton’t even be taking a look at their dating profile.
And maybe stop aided by the sleepovers bc it creates this false sense of intimacy that clearly messes with your head until you have established that this is heading to an exclusive relationship (which is what you are after, yes.
You i would take about five steps back if i were. Don’t glance at his profile, actively don’t obsess you will need to give attention to other activities and simply see where it goes. I understand, easier said than done, but decide to try your absolute best. Bc being this needy and invested with a complete stranger will probably result in heartbreak that is major.
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